Remembering André Leon Talley: Big, Black & Bold
My jaw dropped when I saw Claire Sulmers of Fashion Bomb Daily’s Instagram post of pictures of André Leon Talley with the caption, “RIP.” I knew Talley had some health issues, but we never really know the extent of one’s suffering. So many people suffer in silence. I have even been quiet about the Multiple Sclerosis diagnosis that I received in 2020.
It’s what Black folks do, right? We break down barriers and yet suffer in silence. Talley was always an icon to me as I pursued my career in fashion. I used to dream of working at Vogue right under Talley. As a young woman interning at O, The Oprah Magazine, Vibe Vixen, and Honey Magazine, I really thought I was so close to Uncle Talley.
That’s the affectionate name I had for him in my head. I was in awe at this big Black man from the South who knew French and curated so much of the fashion industry. His hustle was inspiring. His natural knack for luxury is my whole vibe.
His disdain for an unkempt society is me. I cringe when I see bonnets at the airport. I also cringe when I see oversized sweatshirts with not a peek of shorts underneath at the airport.
“The world has become too casual, and people have become lazy. There was a time when people went on airlines with gloves. It’s about the gloves, O.K., darling. It’s about gloves. Listen.”
I crave formalities and drama.
I wish Anna Wintour had put more respect on Talley’s name. He was a force, but he also seemed to always be in the shadow of Wintour when he deserved to be the light. He deserved so much more than what the fashion industry gave him.
I met Talley once at a Manolo Blahnik sample sale in 2011. He was holding court in one of his signature kaftans. He was sitting on his throne, surrounded by Manolo Blahniks and fashionistas came up to him looking for guidance on what shoes they should purchase. I was torn between the Manolo Blahnik's Timberland-inspired 'Oklamod' booties or the ‘Liss Cork Bow’ sandals. Uncle Talley told me to get the ‘Liss Cork Bow’ sandals and added that he loved my turban.
I went off to the register with my Manolo Blahnik ‘Liss Cork Bow’ sandals because the famed Andre Leon Talley told me to.
His influence was so real. I hope his last days were well spent and luxurious. Rest In Power, Unc.
